Wondering how much to spend on a wedding gift in 2025? Discover the right amount based on your relationship with the couple, plus tips to navigate modern wedding gift etiquette.
You’ve got the invitation, you’ve saved the date—but then comes the big question: how much should you spend on a wedding gift? Whether you’re attending your cousin’s garden wedding or sending a gift from abroad, it’s natural to want to be generous without overspending.
Why Gift-Giving Feels Tricky
In today’s digital age, even wedding gifting can become a public affair. A viral TikTok showed out of 120 wedding guests, only a dozen gave gifts—sparking debate. Now, gift etiquette feels more scrutinized than ever. Knowing the current norms can help you choose wisely.
Wedding Gift Spending Guidelines
| Relationship | Suggested Amount |
|---|---|
| Coworker | $50–$75 |
| Friend | $75–$100 |
| Boss/Supervisor | Around $120 |
| Close Friend/Relative | $100–$150 |
| Immediate Family | $150–$200+ |
Registry or Not?
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Registry gifts are encouraged but not mandatory.
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Alternative ideas:
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Pair a small registry item with a gift card or cash.
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Go in on a larger gift with friends.
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Sending cash alone is perfectly acceptable—just include a thoughtful card.
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What About Attending from Afar?
If you’re not attending but received an invite:
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